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Love, Compassion & Healing

Love, Compassion & Healing

This past week, I was getting really frustrated, angry and hateful towards myself. I kept seeing the root cause of my problems and I wasn’t able to let it go, I wasn’t able to heal. I started laying into myself, beating myself up in a way that is appalling. I shut down. I stalled. On Friday, I had a call with my coach and she told me what I needed to do.

I needed to respond with love and compassion so I could heal.

We treat ourselves in ways we would never treat anyone else. We say things to ourselves we would never say to others. We punish ourselves in cruel and brutal ways, ways we would never do to others.

We need to treat ourselves like we treat others, with love & compassion.

The next time you start beating yourself up, stop and give yourself what you need. Give yourself the love you deserve so you can heal, so you can grow, so you can progress.

I recorded this special podcast called Love, Compassion & Healing and I would be so grateful if you listened.

Reliability Never Sleeps,

Rob

Filed Under: Articles, on Maintenance Reliability, Rob's Reliability Project

About Robert Kalwarowsky

Robert Kalwarowsky joined Fluid Life in the spring of 2014 and currently focuses on machine learning, lubrication & reliability audits and reliability product development. Previously, Rob worked as a Reliability Engineer at Teck Resources and his work focused on condition-based monitoring analytics, failure prediction, risk analysis and spare parts optimization. He also has consulting experience in financial modeling with an emphasis on optimization and cost benefit analysis. Prior to that, Rob graduated from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) with a Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering with a minor in Management.

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